I think I should’ve have clarified this a little bit better. During the incident, my brother carried him and he suddenly started crying. I don’t want to use the “hurt” because this is not technically an abuse, it’s just that I don’t have the right term to defined “hurt.” What I meant by hurt is that I thought my brother carried him and and afraid that he squeezed him so hard that it made him cry. All I said was, “what have you done to him?! He is crying!” and that’s it. I have never scold him using the word “hurt.” As for Jay, he has been in this household for over two months now and this incident happened a little over a week ago, so this is fairly new. We (including my brother) loved to play with Jay and loved to carried Jay. Whenever my brother holds Jay, I feel extremely nervous because of the way he holds Jay and how he carries him. That’s why I allegedly blamed on him. I know that I overreacted to this situation by blaming on him, which is my fault and I wanted to say sorry to him millions of times. My family never jumped on the bandwagon of blaming him. It was just me and my sister. It was because my brother has been a mischievous person and my parents would blame on him, but he would never feel butthurt about it. Over this past week, I began to reflect on my mistakes and even bought stuff for him as my sincere apology. You may think that I’m crazy or being a very bad sister, but I always cared for him and loved him as my little brother. I helped him with homework, give him my phone to play Fortnite, and I even give him my money to buy drinks when he purposely left his wallet and let either me or my sister paid instead. I’m about to enter into Junior year of college. You would think that I’m immature, which I accepted it, but there are times that I suddenly became stressed because of school, family, and friendship. The more I’m stressed out, the more sensitive I was. That’s why I overreacted to a lot of things and didn’t jumped to the whole conclusion. I apologize for a very long response. It’s just that I wanted to clarify with the things that you wrote just to clear up some misunderstandings. English is my second language and I’m not good with words and explanation. But I hope this clear things up. I appreciate for your advice at the end. I have learned my lesson and I will be more understanding towards my brother and hopefully he will forgive me one day.