Throughout my pregnancy one of the grandmothers constantly had to make it known that she wanted a girl (already has grandson) and attempted to control everything even wanting to oversee every detail of baby shower. After baby was born (girl) and had to stay in hospital a few extra days after constantly telling grandmother we’d let her know once home when she could visit she still pushed to see baby in hospital. While visiting grandmother had to comment that her blood runs through baby’s veins. Week later after baby coming home and her visiting husband and I noticed behavior that was weird and that we didn’t like. Grandma would hold baby entire time to visit and when holding her would stare at her as if baby was hers. Any time husband or I would get close to baby to fix blanket or check her grandma would tighten her hold on baby and move baby away from us almost as if acting baby is hers and you’re taking her baby. I understand grandparents love their grandkids but I find this behavior weird and upsetting.