Oh what a difficult decision to have to make. I know it will be exceptionally hard. Have you got any sense intuitively of what is the right thing to do? I say this because when my alliance with one T turned sour, I knew in my heart it was time to leave. It was only my mind/thoughts trying to justify it.

It does sound like a good session but you're wise to question whether deep issues would re-emerge with this T later and cause friction again. One session doesn't mean a lot in the long run. I had many satisfying discussions with an abusive ex husband whilst trying desperately to make it work. He said what I needed to hear, but sadly deep routed patterns always took over.

Listen to your gut feelings if at all possible. How did it feel being with the new T? Sometimes the unfamiliar is more scary, but ultimately more right.