Faith, I personally feel this a time though difficult to let him go maybe the army will help him GROW up. The time apart will determine if you really do love each other in fact maybe you both need time apart to help get your head together. Marrying him now would be a big mistake, he has not done anything you can trust him about and that my friend would make for a horrible marriage, which no one needs especially if you were to have a child, I grew up in a dsyfunctional family or should I say I SURVIVED it my mom and dad always and still are fighting all the time and she always goes back to his "affairs", etc. Believe me it is bettter if you go through the pain now of seperating than to live in denial with a partner you can not trust. I hope I haven't hurt your feelings it is just that I hate to someone being taking advantage, and it sounds like your guy has really over done it!! Please take care of yourself
"darkeyes"