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Old Sep 01, 2019, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by ann bog View Post
I have a friend (x) who is more like a person than a friend, and she won’t leave me alone. My heart is heavy because I know she is not being honest with herself and she could never understand me or relate to me in any way. We were friends once but now she is just a person to me.

The article Skeezyks provided has suggestions or tell her what you told us (I understand if you have to say it more gently--sometimes the truth is that we only have so much time--our time is so valuable).

Please don't take this the wrong way but if you feel like she could never understand you then you are doing her a favor by ending the relationship so she can invest her time in other things.