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Originally Posted by BrittyBird
Long story short I was harassed by a girl I barely knew who seems to have it out for me. She went around spreading a twisted story/lie about my past,so I kindly messaged her my side of the story and blocked her as advised. After that a few hours later she messaged me a long paragraph on her alternate account. And then another half hour later she somehow found my other social media to message. She was angered and called me a ***** and said she didn't bother to read my story. How she doesn't care about me and how I don't affect her life. She said many horrible things I will not write unless someone asks me. She said that I was manipulative of others to get what I want,that I lie a lot (we never talked ever,I'm not kidding,) that I'm controlling or something. (Sidenote: she also got mad at my friend/her coworker for telling me what she was saying about me and got mad he "snitched" on her.)
I have about 30 ish friends that I've met in the last few years that can vouch for me that I'm nice and I couldn't hurt a fly with a handful that would REALLY vouch for me. I've had many come forward this week when they noticed me in distress assuring me that she's mentally insane or not right in the head because I never did anything wrong. I spoke with another friend who used to be very close with her, and she told me that she might be a Narcissist (not a professional diagnosis) and she has a lot of issues herself. How she's very vindictive and manipulating herself. I can't tell if everything she said to me was projection because we never talked and she never gave me a chance to talk to her. I'm also flabbergasted because according to a friend of mines who knows from a coworker that works with her,she's a psychology major.
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That is definitely a form of projection. And I agree with your one friend that used to be close to her, she most likely is a narcissist. Not a definite because as you mentioned, it's not a professional diagnosis, but it's very possible. I knew people like that and still do to this day. Something doesn't go their way, they project it onto someone, usually someone who is not as assertive, and treat them like crap. Also people like that will always find reasons to believe they are better than others and that's clearly what's happening with this girl who seems to have it out for you.
She is not right in the head and the fact that she's a psychology major is definitely annoying. Stay away from her, she actually probably secretly enjoys it when you message her and get all defensive. Trust me, I know people who are like that and actually love it when people get defensive and upset. It's their way of feeling more powerful and better about themselves. I wouldn't talk to her anymore. If it gets worse and she's out to ruin your life, then get the authorities or someone with power involved.