Hello Coloral: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC.  I see this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central. 
I don't really think there is a lot I can offer with regard to your predicament. Perhaps there will be other PC members who will have some perspectives they can share. In the meantime though here are links to 3 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of jealousy plus a link to 1 article that talks about what to do if you suspect emotional infidelity. Also included are links to 2 articles on how to prepare for & talk about tough topics:
8 Healthy Ways to Deal with Jealousy
Am I in a Jealous Relationship?
Understanding Jealousy in Your Relationship | Healing Together for Couples
What if You Suspect Emotional Infidelity?
5 Ways to Prepare for a Difficult Conversation
https://psychcentral.com/blog/tips-f...-tough-topics/
__________________
"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last)
|