It's the opposite in my relationship. I have a much higher sex drive than my husband (and he's almost 5 years younger than me!) He says it's nothing to do with me and thinks it's medical. But I've been hearing that for like 7 years now! If he REALLY thought it was medical and treatable why have the last 7 years had to be so hurtful and sexually unsatisfying for me? He's also been caught cheating in last year. If he had such an issue with libido due to medical reasons how tf was he able to go have sex with another woman? He gets angry when I express my hurt, feelings of rejection and attractiveness. He sees it as critical of him but can't seem to understand how his lack sexual desire with me feels critical of me.