Do you mean you tell your wife every time you see a woman you think is sexually appealing? Or as in attracted to/interested in sexually and emotionally? Bc if it's every woman you find sexually attractive I think that's a little excessive. Can you elaborate on the resentment towards her? Bc what I'm seeing in my head would royally piss me off! You're being a **** towards her bc you found yourself with a sexual desire for another woman and feel restricted from acting on it?