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Old Sep 03, 2019, 06:41 PM
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Always in This Twilight
 
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
The couple of times the first woman said things like she felt like she was being attacked (not exactly her word I don't think but something close to it) - I told her good because I was attacking her because she had attacked/humiliated/tried to trap me. I wasn't sorry. It wasn't an accident.
She stopped saying that sort of thing to me.

I really think maybe my T isn't used to me standing up for myself, at least as forcefully as I did today. I usually back down much earlier and defer to him. But today I didn't. I stood my ground. I told him how things he'd said had bothered me. I said he'd hurt me. I'm not sure he knew how to deal with that, with my standing up for myself and not giving in.
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Thanks for this!
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