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Old Sep 03, 2019, 07:06 PM
JaneTennison1 JaneTennison1 is offline
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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty View Post
I went to dinner on Saturday at a restaurant with my parents and a friend of ours. The next day my friend told me I wasn't being very hospitable at the dinner. I felt horrible that she felt that way. I think it is the depression. I don't feel like talking. I don't feel like interacting. I just want to lay in bed and
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I guess I could see that not talking much is not being hospitable. But sometimes surviving is all one can do. I sort of felt shamed. I know she doesn't understand depression but IDK it still bothered me.
I don't think scolding someone for not being nice enough is helpful in any way. Better to ask if someone is ok as they seemed a bit down than to tell them they didn't seem "hospitable" enough

I'm grumpy though, she would be lucky not to get a hospitable middle finger tbh.
Thanks for this!
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