I have a 29 year old daughter who is married to a really good man. My daughter is deaf-blind and her husband learned sign language while they dated. My daughter's and my relationship has been very strained since her mid 20ties. She has a lot of resentment from growing up with my mental illnesses. I'm going out to visit them for the Jewish Holidays next month. I'm terrified. I could really blow it with my daughter. I don't know how to be perfect enough for her.