A quick update on the situation. My boyfriend came back from his holiday and he seems much more relaxed. He doesn't hurt me anymore and everything he is doing feels much better. Still, he doesn't make me come. He uses his fingers but he gets bored or tired and then he stops. I was very happy with the progress in general, but I feel myself getting really mad and upset now. It is frustrating for me, because I have never been with a guy who didn't care before. I'll try to stay calm and patient and I'll try to talk to him next time. He told me he loves me, so he must be willing to make the experience better for me too?