It just sort of seems like LT repeats this entanglement aspect which is kind of what her therapist is pointing out. I really don't mean for that to be an insult. Just an observation. LT, you do have a way of hyperfocusing on fairly small details to the effect of them becoming fairly major conflicts. That comes from somewhere, so I'm trying not to say that as if you have "control" over that, but it is a pattern of interaction that comes up with a fair amount of frequency. Yes, a therapist should be able to deal with that and keep it from becoming a blow up, and this therapist may not be the one to do that, but he is pointing out a reality, hard as it may be to hear.