It sounds like your Husband "may" have a problem with alcohol. Perhaps it would be helpful if you researched "binge alcholism". That is what my husband was and "hint" they typically have people around them they spend time with that are binge alcoholics as well. They LIE and like to drink until they get drunk and tend to like doing cocaine too.

If you argue about alcohol at all "there is a problem". If there are lies and deceptions there is a problem as well.