my mum got herself a lovebird. she never spends time with her, gets me to do all the changing, cleaning and I have a canary and do my best to look after him. she got annoyed at me because i didnt put salad in her cage. she's a fussy eater so i thought she didnt want it. i get to change all the food, water... why get a bird if you're not going to be responsible for her? she just bought her because she's "cute". i get so angry that she had a go at me because i didnt change the sheets and ive been at work and i havent had time then changes the topic to her being at work longer and i just sit there while she does everything. I dont i wash the dishes, put the clothes down from the line etc