Hello Blueskymom: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the Survivors of Abuse forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/survivors-of-abuse/

There is a blog, here on PC, you find of interest. Here's a link to that as well:

Knotted: The Mother-Daughter Relationship

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.