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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
What I just wrote in my post to you is a lot for you to sit and think about Outsider. After all, you love this man and you married him and I am sure this isn't anything you even want to face and think about. I know, I was like that myself. Well, when I look back on how things were with my husband with what I have learned, the red flags were there and I just did not know enough at the time to see them the way I should have. And I believe you love him and that he can be quite lovable at times too. However, it's very important that you take the time to learn about what you are dealing with, even when you don't want to. Well, love can be blind, experienced that myself and it's so important you know what you are actually committing to and how it can affect you in ways you may not be seeing right now.
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Thank you for all this. Its refreshing to hear from someone who has gone through it.
My little brother is an active addict (heroin) and my family and I have been struggling with that situation for several years. He just lost custody of his kids, and being an aunt was my life. My parents cant have custody because they didnt report his relapse, so dss doesn't trust them. I worry everyday that my brother isn't going to make it and I haven't been able to see my nieces and nephew for almost a month.
My husband knows all this. He knows the pain and stress and anxiety that I've been going through with my brother. And he is just making it worse. I haven't had any proof that he is doing coke but it seems like too much to be coincidental. I dont think I have the energy to deal with more drugs in my life.