well.. thats just the thing exactly Pseudonym.... someone told me long ago that i'd catch more bees with honey than vinegar.... so, im doing this love thing....

its supposed to heal and end all wounds ive been told.... so, after a life of quite a bit of my own wreckless behavior, i'm trying to grow up myself.....

apply some of those 'wive tales' addvice heard around the kitchen coffee table in the old days....

im learning that there is still a lot of wisdom in them tho they maybe cliche'....

and im also remembering that some of those tales are fals.... so... going with the one that seems consistent...

love.... but, it gets real frustrating alright when people seem determined to do what you think is harmful and you know without question that the harm you feel is spread out into the world...

i still have to go with love being the answer