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Old Sep 06, 2019, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Lemoncake View Post

I hope your session with M on Wednesday goes well. But also maybe about his email availability too.

Have you also arranged something else with the other T's you contacted?

Thanks, Lemon. Two of the women got back to me yesterday afternoon. The one wouldn't be able to see me till October. I think both offer free phone consultations. So I might set up with a consultation with the one who's available sooner for, say, Tuesday if possible. Or maybe Monday. I feel less of a rush for the other one. There's a third one I hae yet to hear back from (though, in my experience 3/4 is pretty good, plus I might still hear from the her). Plus there are other promising ones I found online, but I didn't want to contact like 20 of them at once!

I don't really want to schedule more than one new T a week, partly for financial reasons (as I *think* I'll still see T twice next week, not sure). But also because I'm afraid it might be overwhelming. I figure if I consult with the one woman (I forget her initial, K maybe?) by phone next week, I could set something up with her for the next week if I like her. Then if I like the guy after meeting with him, could consider canceling that.

I just kinda want to find someone I feel at least somewhat comfortable with before leaving my T--whether that will be a temporary break or maybe permanent. At the same time, his whole "leave or don't leave" thing recently makes me very reluctant to say anything until I'm sure. Well, unless I go in there Monday and it's another mess...
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