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Originally Posted by Lemoncake

I hope your session with M on Wednesday goes well. But also maybe about his email availability too.
Have you also arranged something else with the other T's you contacted?
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Thanks, Lemon. Two of the women got back to me yesterday afternoon. The one wouldn't be able to see me till October. I think both offer free phone consultations. So I might set up with a consultation with the one who's available sooner for, say, Tuesday if possible. Or maybe Monday. I feel less of a rush for the other one. There's a third one I hae yet to hear back from (though, in my experience 3/4 is pretty good, plus I might still hear from the her). Plus there are other promising ones I found online, but I didn't want to contact like 20 of them at once!
I don't really want to schedule more than one new T a week, partly for financial reasons (as I *think* I'll still see T twice next week, not sure). But also because I'm afraid it might be overwhelming. I figure if I consult with the one woman (I forget her initial, K maybe?) by phone next week, I could set something up with her for the next week if I like her. Then if I like the guy after meeting with him, could consider canceling that.
I just kinda want to find someone I feel at least somewhat comfortable with before leaving my T--whether that will be a temporary break or maybe permanent. At the same time, his whole "leave or don't leave" thing recently makes me very reluctant to say anything until I'm sure. Well, unless I go in there Monday and it's another mess...