I feel for you, continuously blue. I'm in the same boat. My wife went from low libido to no libido! When you find the wellspring of other women out there, let me know. It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Someone just recommended seekingarrangements.com but a $90 a month and being on a fixed income, I can't afford it. That's a lot just to be able to send and receive messages. You you have to list your disposable income too. It's depressing. I don't have much to offer. I'm a loving and caring person, but that's not enough. I haven't met a woman yet who wants a genuine friendship. They are all looking for compensation, for a sugar daddy and that's not me. Oh well, I always say, there's somebody for everybody and all I need is one understanding and caring woman. I like to dream and hope for the best. I hope you have better luck than me!