I hope things will get better soon for you one way or another, @mf1438! I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH WHAT ALL THE OTHER WISE AND WONDERFUL POSTERS HAVE ALREADY WISELY AND WONDERFULLY SAID BETTER THAN I EVER COULD! If things continue this way, you may want to REALLY consider Divorce as an option. I know you don't like it but it seems like she's not being respectful of your needs and desires and that's NOT FAIR AT ALL! So please, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and make your voice heard. You needs and desires are important too! Keep posting here if it helps. Feel free to PM me ANYTIME as well and to hit me up as well if you need someone to talk to. I'LL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU! THAT'S A PROMISE! I AM SURE PLENTY OF OTHERS WILL ALSO GLADLY AND WONDERFULLY HELP YOU OUT AS WELL IF YOU JUST ASK, AND EVEN IF YOU DON'T BECAUSE IT IS FULL OF SO MANY AWESOME, BEAUTIFUL, CARING, DEAR, GENEROUS, KIND, RESOURCEFUL, SWEET, KIND, WISE AND WONDERFUL PEOPLE HERE! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @mf1438, your Family, your Friends, your Children and Grandchildren, your Wife and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking! PLEASE DO KEEP FIGHTING AND DO KEEP ROCKING AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WONDERFULLY DOING ALL AND ENTIRELY BY YOURSELF AND ALL AND ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN!