So sorry that you are struggling. I am sure that moving across the country is stressful beyond belief. I would think that each day would get a little easier since you will become more familiar with your surroundings. I know relationships can be hard for us but at least you have a partner to go through life with, I wish I had somebody to lean on during the hard times. i know couples therapy can be really helpful for some people. Maybe try and find a job that issimilar to what you did before you moved or.something that is low stress for right now. I hope this helps a little. Let us know how you're doing.