I greatly dislike the current male therapist as he is described, but I am not certain you are interpreting this new therapist's reactions correctly. I think trying a new one for a while might help you see if it is a style change that might help, but I would be cautious in interpreting what this new one thinks. I remember you went through a period with the current male therapist where you were interpreting every reaction he had as agreeing with how you saw the marriage counselor and your criticism of the marriage counselor and now you are doing the same thing with this woman. It is just how I see it.