sept,

when i said "be careful" i was referring to emotional safety. sorry i didn't make myself clear on that.

and when i said, "keep yourself emotionally safe". it's upsetting to see a friend it that condition...especially someone that's cared about so much. "emotional safety" meaning...take care of yourself while you're trying to help her, hon. i didn't mean to imply that i thought she was dangerous...just that it would be worrisome to me too. i know i would probably jump feet first into finding out what's happened to my friend. sometimes i lose sight of myself when i do those things...

kd