you can never go wrong by loving, and doing the right thing, no matter how painful it is. You can always look back on how you handled a situation and know that you handled it with dignity, grace and compassion, something that we could all use a bit more of added to the world.

As for time healing all wounds, I think it's true, but they have to close up first. That is whatever the source of a particular pain, it has to be removed before the healing process begins, or you're just going to keep fighting the same battle. I'm having a hard time with one of those myself at the moment.

*hug*