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Old Sep 07, 2019, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I agree with those who suggest focussing on why you hired a therapist rather than on the current conflict with the therapist you have. Even the question why are you hiring a therapist could be answered about your underlying causes (depression for example - I am wanting to try to therapy to help with X rather than I am looking for a new therapist because I think the one I see now sucks) rather than the current therapist.

Oh, I answered with that stuff (depression, anxiety, relationship issues, attachment issues), too, because he asked about what I was looking for from therapy. But I also wanted to be upfront that I am currently seeing someone. He asked about termination with T, and I said I wanted to have someone in place, then I'd terminate, and he was good with that. That I wouldn't keep seeing both. I just want to meet this guy and perhaps the woman, too, in person before committing to either of them.
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