Well, I'm not sure what she may be doing, but I'd suggest to just be clear with her and have a serious talk about ALL of this. Ask here whether she's interested or not. It's only fair towards you. So yes, definitely speak to her like the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely and wonderfully suggested. Hopefully that will clear things up. It is certainly not easy to have a relationship with someone who's struggling with Depression but it IS possible. Please do consider this before you decide to start a relationship with her. It is a BIG commitment as you have probably already guessed. Wishing you good luck with it to BOTH of you whatever your deicision will be! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME if you need advice and support. Keep us posted if you wish to do so and let us know how it goes with her. I am SURE plenty of others will also GLADLY and WONDERFULLY help you out as well! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @rvngwgy, Her, Your Family Your Friends And ALL Of Your Loved Ones! PLEASE DO KEEP FIGHTING AND PLEASE DO KEEP ROCKING AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WISELY AND WONDERFULLY DOING ALL AND ENTIRELY BY YOURSELF AND ALL AND ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN!