PC, in conjunction with Psychology Today, has a "find a therapist" option,
here. My caveat is that it works best for those in decent-sized cities. I live in a town of 13,500 and all it gives me is a couple of T's in MN -- which is no more than a half-hour drive from this part of Wisconsin, but still frustrating.
Other than that, I too would love to hear tips for finding a good T, as I have completely struck out here! One thing I have learned (and relearned, 'cause I'm dense

) is that picking one at random out of the phone book or your insurance provider's directory is a
BAD. IDEA. It can be hard to get recommendations if you don't want to blab your mental health issues to people, but sometimes that's still the best way.
Good luck!
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