(((KJ))))))))))))
Your son having asperger's syndrome. Makes him I think at the high end of learning.which is great. Great for him great for you.

My son being PDD has reading and writing issues.

He learned a ton off the tv. He watched every history show there was . Also discovery.
If you feel he is still what he is dxed with imo fight for it.
I fought for years for my son. This was my last year to due so.
Only you and him know whats best for him imo
sounds like you are doing a great job imo
muffy

P.S they are such a blessing