Hi TunedOut!

I agree social media, where your identity is known like facebook, can be very dangerous. I never posted much on there. I posted an occasional family photo, and felt concerned about how someone viewing it may feel badly toward me for whatever reason. I posted an occasional cryptic, snarky crack that nobody ever really ‘got’. I certainly never posted photos of my meals! Then one time I fell into a hornet’s nest with a knee jerk response to a triggering political post from my family member that turned into WWIII, and we have all barely spoken since. So, not much social media for me.

Although, I think it’s hilarious to tweet while watching The Bachelor. You should read the comments and memes people post, and I’ve gotten in a few good ones myself. Guilty pleasures.

As for here— I know I spilled my guts here with TMI. I figured it was anonymous, and even if someone who knew me came on and figured out who I am, I didn’t care. I also felt quite confident no one cared enough or was curious enough about me to do such a thing. Heck, I even told plenty of people i was quite active on here and guess what? Nobody cared!

I remember, when I was little, my older sisters would tease me about how nobody was looking at me or cared at all what I looked like or did anyway. They really spoke the truth.

My mother self published many novels. Heck, nobody cared enough to read them! Nobody cared what she wrote. From what little of them we did try to read, they were insipid! She’s mad as hell nobody cares...but that’s the way it is.

I’m not saying nobody here is not cared about enough for anyone to want to read their posts who knows them. I can see how a jealous husband may want to know what his wife is really up to, or gather ammunition to use in a divorce.

I never said anything here I wouldn’t say to their faces. I most likely did say everything to their faces. It made no difference anyway. I am immensely unimportant.

I have a stalker who keeps friend requesting me on facebook. It’s a long, scary story. I just ignore him and feel pretty confident that if he was going to physically harm me he would have done it already.