I am glad you are going to try to stay away. It is good you set boundaries with the one about the hair. They don't have a right to try to make you do anything, they don't even know you and it's not their decision to make! Please continue to keep yourself safe. Can you talk to or visit some friends or occupy yourself in some other way? What kinds of other, safer things do you like to do that make you happy, that you could use to distract yourself?