It's a family member I can't avoid for complicated reasons. She's being a real ***** today again. I can't say anything random without her accusing me of spending money which she doesn't even have the right tp control. She has a perverse way of twisting everything I say. Like if I say I saw a new product on a website or there's something nice down the road, she goes into a rant about me spending money we dont have as of talking and thinking actually costs money. That's why she's such a ***** about the garden. If a plant dies, she sees it was wasted money. When plants grow well she sees it as a natural course of events and doesn't believe it's because I spent years looking after the bloody plants.