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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Sadly, often the kind of thinking you are talking about is taught to someone. It is also something actually taught in school where a student is expected to feel good about getting everything right and feeling bad about whatever they did not get right. People often handed back tests and papers marked with red that can send a message to a young mind "your work is not good enough it's all ruined now with these red marks".
It's important that when you come across this kind of individual you are getting from them what they were actually taught to think. It could have come from a parent or from teachers they experienced while they were trying to learn.
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Yeah. I can see that it sort of came from a parent who spoiled her. She hates him now and would never admit to being like him but I see her saying things he said as if they her own opinions and acting more and more like him. And they both do this thing where they yell at someone or hit someone and say the It's not their fault because the victim "made" them do it. It's sad for her, but I'm so sick of it. I've been trying to keep in mind that story about scorpion sphaving to sting because it's their nature and remember I will probably get stung every time I encounter her and try not to take it personally.