We are relatively new to it but we both understand that it isn't just about sex but genuine loving connections with others that over time evolves into a network of connections with varying degrees and shades of loving. Ethical non monogamy may be a better term.

Both of us for various reasons have historically struggled with sex-based relationships in the past. Now we have found love and realised our own capacity for love we want to widen our relationship not keep it narrow.

I'm sure we have much to learn though, we intend to do this in order to learn in fact