Hi LT
I haven’t been on Pc in awhile but I just got a little caught up. I’m sorry it isn’t working out with this t. No I don’t think you are doomed. And I think these therapist relationship issues are a core part of the therapy not a distraction. I have attachment issues too. I’ve personally found that ts with at least a little psychodynamic training are better with attachment issues than cbt therapists.

Thinking of you!