I am sorry for everyone that has had to experience this. I know there are times when someone is unsafe and this may be necessary, but I would really hope it's not used except as a last resort. I don't think I'd handle it well. Nammu, I am sorry that happened to you. I can see how in that mental state that sort of response would just aggravate everything.

Thanks for the article BirdDancer. I am able to link to it.