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Are you trying to kill me slowly inside? You sent out a global email to all your clients that when trying to save a stuck baby squirrel on your roof your broke 3 bones in your right foot and will text us to come to your office instead of getting us from the waiting room.
It is slowly killing me that I can not take care of you. I want to help you, cook you dinner, take care of your kids, ice your foot. I will be denied all that. Someone just stab me please.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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