Imho it sounds like she's projecting because I legit have friends that can vouch that I wouldn't hurt a fly and I'm empathetic and kind. But all it takes is her,1 person to make my self esteem crumble.. I spoke to one of my friend's who used to be a former friend of hers and she told me this girl is very two faced and manipulative herself so she shouldn't be talking. How she likes to act better than others people,etc.

also don't expect to believe my story but I'm sorry,that is what happened and that's not a lie. I had a horrible community college experience.

Also,I haven't lost any friends over this. It actually made me closer to a handful of them. And I don't know why it's getting to me when I barely know her. I think it's because I haven't met someone like this in so long. Someone so vindictive that doesn't want to bother talking to me to learn about me or learn what I'm like,instead believing other people and not the source herself. The feeling of not being given a chance or not being believed at all.