<font color="purple"> </font> I wanted to thank you all, I feel that all of your advise is helpful. I just tried to relax, and not get to over the top with him. I tried to talk to him about it and then i thought I might have gotten through to him, and he finally understood me....well, he slept on the couch last night, and I am sure he was watching it again!! This time on the T.V. I know this, because i went into my list on the DVR to find a movie for my son, and he had porn recorded, in there!! I am just so frustrated, I can't see straight anymore. Of course I erased it, because we have minor children, and I would hate for them to click on it and see that nasty crap. How horrifying if they saw it! Now I just don't know what to say to him. I know he loves me, but I think there is something else going on, and I don't know what. Is this something to just call the relationship quits about, or what??