Ok, so I posted this same question in the womens support, and then got to thinking that maybe I need a male's perspective on this too. I cannot understand why my husband likes to watch porn. he even will watch it after we have sex, but go into another room, and wait until I am asleep. I know he loves our sex life, even though it has been cut to a minimum because I feel like I am raising our three kids by myself because he works as a driller on a oil rid so he works 7 days 12 hour shifts, then he has 7 days off, and he leaves and goes hunting until all hours of the night. then thinks he is going to wake me up a 3-4 in the morning when he gets home to have sex!!! that's insane considering I have to get up at 5am to get the kids up for school, then he will sleep until 12 in the afternoon. So, he will watch porn, and tells me it's MY fault he watches porn cause I don't have sex with him!!! How unfair is this? Any advise for me...guys?