Yeah, to be honest on rereading what you wrote and you reply, some of that would really bother me, too. In particular the comment about girls crying and being stuck in your teenage years due to SH. I had a T that I thought might be sexist when he looked at me with surprise when I said I probably didn't want to have kids or get married. I just got the impression he had close minded views about women and was pretty sure it wasn't a good fit as a result. I don't always agree with my current T, but generally feel like we're on the same page and feel validated.