Wow burn, it's almost like your mother resents the fact that you are happy...i have a mom that puts me down in my marriage because she was always unhappy in her relationships...and now she is just bitter of mine and my sisters. I say let her cool off, you are an adult, and her opinions are welcome, but she needs to be an adult about this, and kuddos to you for you trying to take the time to ensure your mother feelings. She needs to just step back and look at it like if she is happy, I'm happy for her!