Carrie,
While I understand that the final decison was his...no problem with that at all...I was more hurt that he did not include me in the thought process. That is all I wanted was to have my opinion added..
I am a big believer that a relationship is a partnership...he is involved in my major life choices and I was shooting for the same thing. I would not be upset by either decision that he made and I talked to him this weekend about that. I told him that I will support him no matter what and I will.
I agree with you though..this is another opportunity for us to strengthen our relationship together.

Thanks
Jessica