Forgive me but I had to laugh when I read the title of your post because I just got out of my therapy session and yes my therapist annoys me a lot. But also when he does say things that annoy me or do things that annoy me I tend to point them out I don't Point them out right away but after he's done it a few times I just come out and say I hate when you do that or you make me mad when you do that sometimes we'll discuss it sometimes he'll just say that's okay you have a right to be mad at me that usually when he's not going to change his stance on something.

I would probably really get annoyed though if he talked about spiritual stuff all the time I'm a Believer but I still don't want to hear that from my therapist I wanted to hear that I'd go to a priest.

Maybe try letting her know that what she saying is annoying you and not helping she's never going to know unless you tell her. Being annoyed?