Update: So its been a few weeks. My job is going good. I havent seen or run into her since it happened thank god. My therapist seemed to air more on the side of that she overreacted which helped a bit but I still feel guilty sometimes. Im also having an issue where it took me a while to summon the confidence to talk to this girl and now that it blew up, I'm even less sure and cautious than I was before. 1 step forward, 5 steps back. I've also been struggling with self esteem more. I spent all yesterday afternoon feeling incredibly unattractive and like it would be impossible for a woman to find me desirable