Sis Tomi,
Yes this has happened before. He tells me that because he was single for so long....almost seven years before me... that sometimes he forgets that he is in a relationship. Please do not get me wrong..he is the sweetest and most understanding guy in the world, but sometimes he is clueless and he really is naive about relationships sometimes. He only seriously dated one person before me and she really broke his heart (cheated on him with best friends...lied...manipulated).
I really do not believe that he does this on purpose to hurt me. I just think that sometimes he is in such a hurry to get a good thing going in his life that he takes his gut reaction. It is kinda funny because I am the same way sometimes.
When I talked to him this weekend he did apologize and we did sit down and talk about it. This is probably my fault too because sometimes I do not speak my mind about things.
While I was hurt I do not think that this is a huge deal... meaning that I do not think that it will end our relationship.

Thanks,
Jessica