Not sure what part you are confused on. Beginning meaning start of a relationship before committing fully.. I meant in the beginning when you meet and start dating, things have to be good, there is no point to go on if things aren’t good.

Sometimes people meet someone and date them and things aren’t good yet people keep seeing each other and even marry and think it will improve. It doesn’t improve. Then they are surprised they have bad marriage.

It was bad in the beginning, when they were still dating before they got married, so why would it get great all of a sudden? Things have to be good from the start.. What you see is what you get.

In your situation sticking around in hopes it will improve is a waste of time imho. No such thing as “destined”. Things are either good or they aren’t.

No I see no point to put up with or endure anything that isn’t good. What for? Sure things happen in long term marriage such as illnesses and finances and job losses and issue with kids or in laws and sometimes people do have to endure.

But you two aren’t even married and you already have to “endure”. Imho no point in doing so. There is someone out there with whom you will not have to “put up with or endure”.