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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I asked if he had thoughts on potential ways for us to move forward. T: "Do you actually want me to talk about those? Because I get the sense that maybe you just want to end."
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This was the part that broke my heart. With my own T's, T3 was first to bring up termination (actually all of my T's except current T has been first to bring up termination) but with T3 I had gone in there knowing I was going to terminate but not knowing how. When T3 brought it up before I did in session, I just felt like such a failure. Not saying you do, or that you should, just that is how I felt even though I wanted to terminate with T3. It was a weird mix of feelings. When I read that set of sentences above it broke my heart because it just felt like maybe he was giving up, or giving you permission to give up? IDK. HUGS, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I hope it comes out better for you, whomever you end up working with.
