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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I think the thing with blame and fault is, I'm trying desperately to figure out what happened to make the relationship go so south so quickly (we had our issues and conflicts, but it feels the last 6 weeks or so it was in a tailspin). And worrying I'm doomed with the T I just started seeing. I certainly intend to limit outside contact with him (the fact that he uses phone in certain circumstances but doesn't like to use email should help). As that's a big part of what led to conflict with ex-Dr.T and I guess with ex-MC as well.
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I know outside contact is great for some but, for me, it creates drama and conflict. My current T is very clear and she will sometimes write a line or two but mostly it is just "I am thinking of you, i will see you on Monday at 4pm" or something like that. I know what I will get. We have emailed maybe 4 times? Text is mostly it. Sometimes I leave a voicemail and we will discuss it next session.